BACK IN THE OLD USA! (Trying to go home again)
We had come back to the East Coast
so that Catherine could go back to school to pursue her interest in conflict
resolution. We knew that there was a
post-graduate course at George Mason University in Northern Virginia. On our second day in Washington, we
borrowed Patch's car and drove out there so that Catherine could get some
information about the course. We were
staying for a few days at the Gesundheit House in Arlington with our very close
friends, Patch and his wife Lynda and Gareth, the cyberpunk writer and his jazz
vocalist wife, Pam. There was a morose
teenage boy at the house there as well as two ebullient five-year-old boys. It was a lively and dynamic atmosphere and
both of us liked the idea of moving in there while Catherine was at
school. Neither of us thought that we
would stay in that area after Catherine completed her course, assuming that she
was accepted into the next program.
There was apparently very stiff competition to get into the Conflict
Analysis and Resolution Clinic where many students applied but only a few were
accepted. We had made a deal that we
would go traveling again as soon as she graduated so it seemed that our stay in
the area was only going to be for two or three years.
Mid-December found us down at
Catherine's parents’ house in rural Bath County where Catherine walked straight
into a seasonal job as a waitress at the Homestead Resort Hotel over
Christmas. This was a period of readjustment
after our travels and after so much new imput over the past year. I wasn't at all sure that I wanted to
continue to be based in the States. Of
course I still felt that America had a tremendous potential but the country
seemed to be as far from realizing it as it had ever been. And I found America incredibly
insular. Once one was back on US soil,
it felt as if America was the center of the world and that all the rest of the
world only existed in relation to America.
This was caused by the immense power of the Media which managed to
create a world picture in which America, like the famous painting of New York,
loomed large in the center of the world landscape while the other continents
were dotted like islands somewhere out on the horizon. A young girl's death in a car accident
attracted far more attention than the death of two hundred and fifty thousand
Indians in Bangla Desh floods. I felt
that my global view would be eroded away if I stayed in America for very
long. But we decided to settle on the
East Coast at least until Catherine found out if she had been accepted for her
course. If she was, we would then
commit to staying in the Washington area a further two years.
We made a trip over to West Virginia
before Christmas and although it was fun to see all our friends again, both of
us realized that our life in the mountains was firmly in the past. This time we had no desire whatsoever to
move back there again. We had made
that mistake once already. We got
ready for Christmas in Virginia, cut down a fir tree for the house, made a big,
rich Christmas steamed pudding and wrote a lot of letters. Patch formally offered us a room in the
big group house in Arlington and we went back up there to discuss the details
with him and the others. I could have
most of the garage at the house for a studio, it was all a little expensive but
we would be walking straight into a great situation. We judged it all to be worth it and would move into Gesundheit
in the New Year.
Catherine's parents were as always
super-supportive and we based ourselves at their log cabin house near Goshen
Pass, Bath County while we reacclimatised ourselves and prepared to move to the
nation's capital. Our transportation scene
had to be gotten together and once again Mary and Dick helped us out. Two years before, when our Subaru car was
destroyed in our car accident, I had traded a batik landscape to friends of
ours for a vintage 1965 American Rambler car.
This was a classic of its time, a solidly, built to last, family
sedan. Catherine's parents had
recently bought a new truck and offered to trade us their old Toyota one ton
truck for the Rambler. This was a
great deal for us. It was rather like
Jack trading his goose for a bean, only in reverse for we had in essence traded
a painting for a truck.
We spent Christmas in Bath
County. Catherine was working with
her brother Michael at the Homestead most of the time and I lay low, read and
watched videos on the TV.
I went for a final physical therapy
session on my wrist, still very stiff and sore and limited in its strength and
movement after our accident early the year before. Two years were almost past and it would soon be time for the
insurance company to make some kind of settlement with us. The last day of 1991 was cold but clear and
bright and I spent it alone over in Pocahontas County at a rather tame
neighbourhood party. A Brand New
Year, a brand new ray of hope, I thought to myself as the New Year, always so
full of promise, was toasted. Vive La
Change! I said to myself.